Over the last 6 months, I’ve visited 31 providers – roughly 5 a month, which isn’t too shabby. All I can say is: forget all about solo sessions, edging, and all that stuff. Forget Fleshlights – as fun as they are to use, they don’t build much stamina for real situations.
I don’t know anything worse than what happened once after I’d been abstinent from sex and porn for a full month. I was with my first girl after 31 days, and I kid you not – she took my pants down and started sucking… 20 seconds later, I busted. 20 seconds – it was very unpleasant for me. Luckily, and usually, the second round lasts longer, but when your first round lasts under 3–4 minutes, it’s definitely a mood killer.
Since I visited my first girl of the year back in January, I can confidently say I feel a lot better. My stamina has skyrocketed over the past 6 months. I went from lasting 3 minutes back in January (first round, seriously) to lasting at least 5–6 minutes now in June. The time it takes for me to reach the point of no return keeps increasing, too.
There’s no way I could’ve done that using techniques on my own. Edging? Forget it – it’s no good in real situations. Fleshlights and sex dolls? I own both and use them occasionally for fun, but they’re still far from the real thing.
There’s also the psychological perspective. When you’re with a woman in a session, you tell yourself (maybe consciously, maybe subconsciously) that you have to last long. That kind of thinking builds you up – slowly but surely, over time.
If I’ve been abstinent from sex for just 3+ weeks, it really shows – in a negative way. That’s why I’m doing my best to see a new girl at least every second week (even better: once a week). Girls here in Copenhagen, Denmark, cost around $200/hour on average. If you're lucky, you can find some who charge only $150/hour – mostly South American girls.
Sometimes I go for the cheapest option when the urge just… comes over me. But when I plan ahead and tell myself “I want to book a girl for tomorrow,” I do some proper research and treat myself to a real goddess – usually a little more expensive, but absolutely worth it.
Also, I love to receive head, but it´s not the best in order to build stamina. Penetration is the only way to build it.
I should have included this in my “Guide for First-Time Hobbyists” post, but I figured this topic deserved its own individual post.
I don’t know anything worse than what happened once after I’d been abstinent from sex and porn for a full month. I was with my first girl after 31 days, and I kid you not – she took my pants down and started sucking… 20 seconds later, I busted. 20 seconds – it was very unpleasant for me. Luckily, and usually, the second round lasts longer, but when your first round lasts under 3–4 minutes, it’s definitely a mood killer.
Since I visited my first girl of the year back in January, I can confidently say I feel a lot better. My stamina has skyrocketed over the past 6 months. I went from lasting 3 minutes back in January (first round, seriously) to lasting at least 5–6 minutes now in June. The time it takes for me to reach the point of no return keeps increasing, too.
There’s no way I could’ve done that using techniques on my own. Edging? Forget it – it’s no good in real situations. Fleshlights and sex dolls? I own both and use them occasionally for fun, but they’re still far from the real thing.
There’s also the psychological perspective. When you’re with a woman in a session, you tell yourself (maybe consciously, maybe subconsciously) that you have to last long. That kind of thinking builds you up – slowly but surely, over time.
If I’ve been abstinent from sex for just 3+ weeks, it really shows – in a negative way. That’s why I’m doing my best to see a new girl at least every second week (even better: once a week). Girls here in Copenhagen, Denmark, cost around $200/hour on average. If you're lucky, you can find some who charge only $150/hour – mostly South American girls.
Sometimes I go for the cheapest option when the urge just… comes over me. But when I plan ahead and tell myself “I want to book a girl for tomorrow,” I do some proper research and treat myself to a real goddess – usually a little more expensive, but absolutely worth it.
Also, I love to receive head, but it´s not the best in order to build stamina. Penetration is the only way to build it.
I should have included this in my “Guide for First-Time Hobbyists” post, but I figured this topic deserved its own individual post.
