This one hurts to write just because I’ve had such a good level of engagement with her over the last few years, including a wonderful doubles session with Jada Stevens (Porn Companions) in late October.
Don’t want to get into super specifics and I don’t want any help trying to recover my funds at this point. Just putting the warning out there. Be very wary about sending her any pre funds.
This wasn’t even a deposit issue. Days after our appointment in October, she reached out asking for a favor in the form of a very short term loan (literally 3 days) for a grand. Was weary, but I’ve worked with her for years and she’s asked for similar favors in the past (but usually before an already scheduled meeting). Against better judgement (and because I already wanted to ask her for a favor on a few high level introductions) I agreed and sent her the funds.
The minute I hit send, she started ghosting me for weeks at a time. I was very respectful and only followed up about once a week. When I finally got fed up after a few weeks, I got excuses. I said cool, just let me let me know when you think you can repay, and again ghosted. I had even offered up a scenario where she keeps half of the money in exchange for a few introductions. Said she would work on it, but again was ghosted.
Nearly 7 weeks later, I’m throwing in the towel and posting this warning.
I won’t post them publicly, but I have receipts for any mod that wants to validate this. Specifically the detailed text exchanges and proof of transmission of funds.
As always fellas, whether for a deposit or just trying to help out someone that you’ve engaged with for years, always follow the mantra:
I will only send funds out that I have no issue lighting on fire right now.
Don’t want to get into super specifics and I don’t want any help trying to recover my funds at this point. Just putting the warning out there. Be very wary about sending her any pre funds.
This wasn’t even a deposit issue. Days after our appointment in October, she reached out asking for a favor in the form of a very short term loan (literally 3 days) for a grand. Was weary, but I’ve worked with her for years and she’s asked for similar favors in the past (but usually before an already scheduled meeting). Against better judgement (and because I already wanted to ask her for a favor on a few high level introductions) I agreed and sent her the funds.
The minute I hit send, she started ghosting me for weeks at a time. I was very respectful and only followed up about once a week. When I finally got fed up after a few weeks, I got excuses. I said cool, just let me let me know when you think you can repay, and again ghosted. I had even offered up a scenario where she keeps half of the money in exchange for a few introductions. Said she would work on it, but again was ghosted.
Nearly 7 weeks later, I’m throwing in the towel and posting this warning.
I won’t post them publicly, but I have receipts for any mod that wants to validate this. Specifically the detailed text exchanges and proof of transmission of funds.
As always fellas, whether for a deposit or just trying to help out someone that you’ve engaged with for years, always follow the mantra:
I will only send funds out that I have no issue lighting on fire right now.
