I’ve been reading a lot of what IvySociete has to give. They touch on subjects I never even thought to talk about, and now I can’t get any of what I read from them out of my mind. I really enjoy the blogs written by Amity Adams (bottom right). She mostly talks about the things going on during her travels, connecting it with her time as a provider. One piece she wrote was about how escorting and OnlyFans are one and the same. This is something we’ve all known from day one, but Adams approaches it from more of an emotional standpoint rather than a financial one.
The way we speak about OnlyFans is the way a parent would talk about a kid going to college back in the 90s. It was the inevitable next step something you didn’t have to think about because you just knew that’s what they were going to do. The same could be said for an OnlyFans content creator, and there are countless creators any of us could point to as examples. I, along with many others, assumed this shift came from the money these creators were making, pushing them to switch careers. I’m sure the money had something to do with it, but there’s also the possibility that the creator becomes more comfortable with the career switch after constantly being in a form of intimacy through their platform.
I’m not talking about physical intimacy. We’ve all shared that mutual-masturbation video chat. I’m talking about the “love connection” that Adams mentions in her blog. She describes the best way to get to know her as being through her content seeing her energy, her flirting, laughing, basically building chemistry before you meet. It does sound intriguing and definitely a solid icebreaker. Adams is clearly aiming for a long-term type of feel that you really don’t see many providers putting effort into, while still making money on the side.
Now, as interesting as Adams’s blog is, from a client’s point of view, I wouldn’t necessarily go through OnlyFans to meet her. I do understand her wanting to get closer to her clients emotionally. Whether you’ll actually get that on OnlyFans really depends on the followers you have. As a client, I just see that constant attention I’m giving you followed by the tips that come with that attention — as something that could be better used for the actual session. Sure, the provider is getting paid either way, but as much of a connection as OnlyFans wants you to believe you’re getting, the disconnect is still very much there.
I’m not saying Adams is wrong in her blog. I’m sure this method has helped her business move like clockwork. I just don’t think OnlyFans and providing go together, at least not in the emotional-connection sense. It’s true a creator can get comfortable enough to eventually begin providing, but that’s where I think the hand-in-hand relationship between providing and OnlyFans ends.
Amity Adams Blog Post
The way we speak about OnlyFans is the way a parent would talk about a kid going to college back in the 90s. It was the inevitable next step something you didn’t have to think about because you just knew that’s what they were going to do. The same could be said for an OnlyFans content creator, and there are countless creators any of us could point to as examples. I, along with many others, assumed this shift came from the money these creators were making, pushing them to switch careers. I’m sure the money had something to do with it, but there’s also the possibility that the creator becomes more comfortable with the career switch after constantly being in a form of intimacy through their platform.
I’m not talking about physical intimacy. We’ve all shared that mutual-masturbation video chat. I’m talking about the “love connection” that Adams mentions in her blog. She describes the best way to get to know her as being through her content seeing her energy, her flirting, laughing, basically building chemistry before you meet. It does sound intriguing and definitely a solid icebreaker. Adams is clearly aiming for a long-term type of feel that you really don’t see many providers putting effort into, while still making money on the side.Now, as interesting as Adams’s blog is, from a client’s point of view, I wouldn’t necessarily go through OnlyFans to meet her. I do understand her wanting to get closer to her clients emotionally. Whether you’ll actually get that on OnlyFans really depends on the followers you have. As a client, I just see that constant attention I’m giving you followed by the tips that come with that attention — as something that could be better used for the actual session. Sure, the provider is getting paid either way, but as much of a connection as OnlyFans wants you to believe you’re getting, the disconnect is still very much there.
I’m not saying Adams is wrong in her blog. I’m sure this method has helped her business move like clockwork. I just don’t think OnlyFans and providing go together, at least not in the emotional-connection sense. It’s true a creator can get comfortable enough to eventually begin providing, but that’s where I think the hand-in-hand relationship between providing and OnlyFans ends.
Amity Adams Blog Post
