So right now, the biggest question going through X is one I've asked myself a couple of times. We've actually spoken on this here and there with a lot of us leaning towards younger, but with some new members bring it back around seem favorable. The big question that has been circling, is what differences do you notice between providers in their 20s, providers in their 30s, and providers in their 40s? This is an absolute great question as I'm the type that takes age in to consideration for a number of reasons.
If I break down starting with the 20's it's pretty obvious. Certain providers in their 20's don't take the hobby seriously at all. Their attention span is extremely short, so much that it seems as if unless you're their phone you aren't worth their attention. I think some are unable to stay in the moment, because they have a lot on their mind which could be anything from school to who their next client is. Finally, I believe holding a conversation is key within the provider/client relationship. Whether this is for an hour or twelve it's something that important that can really show you the type of person you're about to be with. I don't think that's really possible with 20-something providers especially with how we see the world.
Now, I have gotten proven wrong on some of these critiques in the community. However, at the same time I've also been proven right. Some of the younger women the community has seen as surprise me showing not all providers in their 20's are as stereotypical as I thought. While others are directly on the money and prove their age speaks volumes to who they are and what the give in this hobby.
Don't get me wrong, I know the benefits for some do away everything I just said. These women her in their 20's offering youth, amazing sex, and and stored energy you just want to suck out of them along with other things. It can be seen as balanced.
The providers in their 30's and for all that matter in their 40's and above are almost a different breed. These mature providers can be seen as more enlightened, but the window for bullshit is significantly shorter. I think these woman are more pricey given how at this point in their career they're they can be more established and a bit more polished. To them that would seem worth adding a couple of extra dollars to their rates. More then none, you'll find some who are more straight forward not in need to offer and kinks or fetishes just all around companionship.
The benefits the more mature providers offer seem more intake then the 20s. Sure you're paying more, but again, these providers are skilled, polished, and often well-reviewed. Yes, sometime the rates can be on the high-end side though you have to see what you're paying for. 30 maybe old to some, though I believe the youth that's still their is added with a since of vibrance and wisdom. From 30 and higher, I can see these woman being so very career driven and just more understandable given the life experience they've lived through.
As I go through the comments of this question, I was pleasantly surprise. A lot of the people commenting were providers looking for insight as a majority of them were over 30 looking to get into a clients mind. A lot of the clients spoke their truth letting all who came to the topic understand the vast difference between these ages leaning more to women in their 30s and above. I really didn't think to many of us enjoyed women of this age since so many of us enjoy going for women that were either in their early 20's on cusp of turning 20. Now, I know this didn't speak for everyone but even I who really enjoys being with a woman in their 30's and well above think about younger providers in their mid 20s. It isn't something I'll go out of my way to look for as the maturity isn't all their for me. Still, the benefits can be very enticing.
If I break down starting with the 20's it's pretty obvious. Certain providers in their 20's don't take the hobby seriously at all. Their attention span is extremely short, so much that it seems as if unless you're their phone you aren't worth their attention. I think some are unable to stay in the moment, because they have a lot on their mind which could be anything from school to who their next client is. Finally, I believe holding a conversation is key within the provider/client relationship. Whether this is for an hour or twelve it's something that important that can really show you the type of person you're about to be with. I don't think that's really possible with 20-something providers especially with how we see the world.
Now, I have gotten proven wrong on some of these critiques in the community. However, at the same time I've also been proven right. Some of the younger women the community has seen as surprise me showing not all providers in their 20's are as stereotypical as I thought. While others are directly on the money and prove their age speaks volumes to who they are and what the give in this hobby.
Don't get me wrong, I know the benefits for some do away everything I just said. These women her in their 20's offering youth, amazing sex, and and stored energy you just want to suck out of them along with other things. It can be seen as balanced.
The providers in their 30's and for all that matter in their 40's and above are almost a different breed. These mature providers can be seen as more enlightened, but the window for bullshit is significantly shorter. I think these woman are more pricey given how at this point in their career they're they can be more established and a bit more polished. To them that would seem worth adding a couple of extra dollars to their rates. More then none, you'll find some who are more straight forward not in need to offer and kinks or fetishes just all around companionship.
The benefits the more mature providers offer seem more intake then the 20s. Sure you're paying more, but again, these providers are skilled, polished, and often well-reviewed. Yes, sometime the rates can be on the high-end side though you have to see what you're paying for. 30 maybe old to some, though I believe the youth that's still their is added with a since of vibrance and wisdom. From 30 and higher, I can see these woman being so very career driven and just more understandable given the life experience they've lived through.
As I go through the comments of this question, I was pleasantly surprise. A lot of the people commenting were providers looking for insight as a majority of them were over 30 looking to get into a clients mind. A lot of the clients spoke their truth letting all who came to the topic understand the vast difference between these ages leaning more to women in their 30s and above. I really didn't think to many of us enjoyed women of this age since so many of us enjoy going for women that were either in their early 20's on cusp of turning 20. Now, I know this didn't speak for everyone but even I who really enjoys being with a woman in their 30's and well above think about younger providers in their mid 20s. It isn't something I'll go out of my way to look for as the maturity isn't all their for me. Still, the benefits can be very enticing.
