I've had a few transactional relationships, and they've all been great. I genuinely believe that transactional relationships are worth it. It's like, on a smaller scale, having your own "escort"/provider on speed dial—not literally, but it's close.
I think every man should experience at least one continuous transactional relationship in his life. It's much better than having a girlfriend. The woman doesn't usually complain because she knows that if she does, there's a fair chance that we'll walk away, as we're the ones providing her with material goods/money.
These relationships are always based around sex. With the women I've had transactional relationships with, we always had sex at least twice on the days we met up.
What's also great about transactional relationships is that you don't have to pretend. You don't need to keep your guards up all the time or worry about whether she's seeing other guys or if she really loves you. She probably is seeing other guys, which is okay because the relationship revolves around money, and you've both implicitly agreed to that, even if you don't explicitly talk about it.
You can call it a sugar relationship or a transactional relationship—it's essentially the same thing. What I've learned and will apply in the future if I enter another transactional relationship is that there are no feelings involved, and that realization has set me free. In the past, I was too emotionally invested in such relationships. Now, I'm ready to pursue and engage in a transactional relationship in the near future with a clear understanding of what it entails.
So, my advice to any gentleman considering such a relationship or on the verge of entering one but feeling uncertain: go for it. You won't regret it. We only live once, so why not?
I think every man should experience at least one continuous transactional relationship in his life. It's much better than having a girlfriend. The woman doesn't usually complain because she knows that if she does, there's a fair chance that we'll walk away, as we're the ones providing her with material goods/money.
These relationships are always based around sex. With the women I've had transactional relationships with, we always had sex at least twice on the days we met up.
What's also great about transactional relationships is that you don't have to pretend. You don't need to keep your guards up all the time or worry about whether she's seeing other guys or if she really loves you. She probably is seeing other guys, which is okay because the relationship revolves around money, and you've both implicitly agreed to that, even if you don't explicitly talk about it.
You can call it a sugar relationship or a transactional relationship—it's essentially the same thing. What I've learned and will apply in the future if I enter another transactional relationship is that there are no feelings involved, and that realization has set me free. In the past, I was too emotionally invested in such relationships. Now, I'm ready to pursue and engage in a transactional relationship in the near future with a clear understanding of what it entails.
So, my advice to any gentleman considering such a relationship or on the verge of entering one but feeling uncertain: go for it. You won't regret it. We only live once, so why not?
