I really love mature providers. Most of the women I’ve visited over the years have been at least 3–4 years older than me and there’s a very good reason for that.
It’s something that’s only become clearer the older I get. I’ll be 29 come December, and one thing I’ve learned is this: experience and maturity really matters.
I’ve set a personal rule that I follow strictly - no exceptions, no “slip-ups.” I don’t book anyone under the age of 22. Sounds simple, but it took me A VERY, VERY LONG time to figure out why this rule mattered to me.
I’ve realized that women aged 18–21, as attractive as they can be and often are, sometimes lack a certain emotional maturity that makes the experience truly meaningful.
Don’t get me wrong - a 20-year-old with a tight, fit body... absolutely top!
But you can get that same appeal (and more) with a 25+year old.
Every single woman who’s ever become an ATF for me has been over 26. My former SB was even 13 years older than me. As I stated before, I really do like a provider with substance.
I just bond better with mature women who can hold a real (and long) conversation.
Maybe it’s just me or maybe maturity really is the ultimate turn-on?
It’s something that’s only become clearer the older I get. I’ll be 29 come December, and one thing I’ve learned is this: experience and maturity really matters.
I’ve set a personal rule that I follow strictly - no exceptions, no “slip-ups.” I don’t book anyone under the age of 22. Sounds simple, but it took me A VERY, VERY LONG time to figure out why this rule mattered to me.
I’ve realized that women aged 18–21, as attractive as they can be and often are, sometimes lack a certain emotional maturity that makes the experience truly meaningful.
Don’t get me wrong - a 20-year-old with a tight, fit body... absolutely top!
But you can get that same appeal (and more) with a 25+year old.
Every single woman who’s ever become an ATF for me has been over 26. My former SB was even 13 years older than me. As I stated before, I really do like a provider with substance.
I just bond better with mature women who can hold a real (and long) conversation.
Maybe it’s just me or maybe maturity really is the ultimate turn-on?
