First, tell us about you. When you aren't providing,
making content for your manyvids, or being a sexual
beast, what are you doing?
My name is Nikki Sexx, long time porn veteran since
2008 of about 500 or so movies and scenes including
Brazzers Naughty America Jules Jordan
Evil Angel etc etc etc And now a days have been
making my own content. I have had a TON of Joe jobs
outside of porn and most recently I had been
working for an electronics company as their
webmaster. I was able to cross over a lot of the editing
and lighting experience I was getting into
my own content now as well and its helped me to be
more independent. I would also LOVE to shoot more
mainstream again whenever that opportunity comes
along.
I'm ready and waiting.
Did you start providing before or after you became a
pornstar?
After.
I didn't really start putting myself out there until this
last year or so. I decided that life is way too short, and I
needed to start really "going for it"
and doing the things I wanted to do while I still could do
it and had the opportunity to.
Do other pornstars frown upon your escorting?
I don't think so, I'm pretty sure most of the girl out
there are available as well, so that would be kind of
hypocritical. I don't talk with too many other
stars though, I just kinda keep to myself.
Unlike other pornstars you freely let the world know
you escort. Why? As in, what not escort "UTR" like they
do?
Since I started in porn, and doing adult entertainment,
I've kind of done things more selfishly, as in, I only do
the things that I enjoy, and get off on and escorting has been no different. I LOVE doing this stuff. I sit back and fantasize MYSELF about getting booked, and what might happen, and it really gets me off.
So I don't feel any shame about it, or that I need to hide
anything, I have read a few of my own reviews before
and felt a sense of pride in them that really moved me.
I never thought that when I finally posted an ad, and
started providing that I would be having the type of
experiences I have been having. I feel like I have
really been able to connect, and vibe with my fans, or
admirers and really have an amazing experience
together. Not as an in/out, or a half hour smash
session, but real experiences that you can take something from and have it continually give you a smile for weeks on down the line. I don't even really do 1 hour sessions, in fact don't think I ever have.
Every booking has had more substance to it than just
the basics. When I see the term PSE, I think of it as way more than just a booking, its in the name, its an experience. I bring a ton of outfits, I model them for you, I talk to you about whatever you'd like, my scenes, my life, dirty fantasies, it doesn't matter to me, I love it all and it makes each person a unique experience. Sometimes we even play a game, or do an ice breaker activity to loosen the mood and make sure nothing is rushed and the vibe is correct.
I also extend to all of my clients the option of getting
testing done and engaging in bareback full service
(BBFS). That to me goes along with the PSE, as well as
filming, which I offer as well. Filming isn't for everyone, but I have always extended the option because I wholeheartedly understand why someone would want that and I want them to have the experience that they've dreamed of.
What are the biggest benefits of being a provider?
To each their own, I'm sure most girls are going to say
the money, but for me the money is just a means to an
end. When I'm old and dying, I'm going to look back at
all of the moments that life has given me and I want to be able to smile back on them and know I made some kind of difference to someone's life at some point and hope that it was positive.
A lot of providers work under an agency, but you don't.
Why?
I don't want to be attached to anyone else, or have
anyone else involved in my decisions in any way, nor
the consequences thereof.
How invested do you want your clientele to be into
you?
This is primarily after you've seen them.Well I aim to rock their world to the core, whatever that may be when I figure it out, so I would hope that they would have at the very least a good memory of me and the date, and consider me again in the future.
How do you make your clientele as comfortable as
possible in your sessions?
I do my best to feel out who they are, and what there
after the date, and go with that. Guys want all
different things, and if you don't stop and find out what
it is, you have a lesser chance at having a great date. So I listen to them, and feel them out and do my best to adapt to that.What's something you despise in a client to do in a
session with Just bad hygiene really, which hasn't really happened with clients as of yet. Its really all I need, good hygiene, and an honest attitude and we can make some magic.
Tell me the worst experience you've had with a client?
Have not yet had a bad one, but the worst part of the
whole industry? Definitely the flake factor for guys.
Guys will cancel on you about 3/4 of the time which is a
real disappointment for me personally. Like I said, I get off on this as much as anyone, and when we build something up, and then the guy doesn't follow through, is a real bummer. If guys even followed through half of the time, I'm sure deposits and such wouldn't be so necessary, but the guys that jerk off to the emails and never follow through makes finding the people who are serious about it even harder.
How much do you love the subreddit group? Be honest.
I love reading it, but its gotten a little narrow in scope. I
think it should expand beyond the normal topics of "Girl
X??" And have more substantive conversations
about things. I would love for guys to share what they think would make a better date.
What would make you more comfortable?
Even things like preferring day or night or a bed or a couch would help. We can always make things better.
The sub has its flaws. What do you want to see us do
better?
Just promote more conversation, and let it all flow. I don't think any topics should be off limits, or deleted. It
can only help make it a more comprehensive place for
information.
What do you say to your bad reviews?
I say that I wish the guy would have told me beforehand what he was looking for. As much as I'm a great cock
reader, I'm not a mind reader and if I don't know, then I
i can't do my best for you. OH! And I fucking SWEAR my uber was late, and there was traffic. I'm late to EVERYTHING. Don't book me if you're on a schedule, cuz I'm not a clock watcher, and hope you aren't either.
Is there an expiration date on you escorting? Like,
should we be marking our calendars?
There is an expiration date on everything. I don't know
what tomorrow will bring, and my ability to do this could
end at any time, that being said, I have no expiration
day in mind at this time.
making content for your manyvids, or being a sexual
beast, what are you doing?
My name is Nikki Sexx, long time porn veteran since
2008 of about 500 or so movies and scenes including
Brazzers Naughty America Jules Jordan
Evil Angel etc etc etc And now a days have been
making my own content. I have had a TON of Joe jobs
outside of porn and most recently I had been
working for an electronics company as their
webmaster. I was able to cross over a lot of the editing
and lighting experience I was getting into
my own content now as well and its helped me to be
more independent. I would also LOVE to shoot more
mainstream again whenever that opportunity comes
along.
I'm ready and waiting.
Did you start providing before or after you became a
pornstar?
After.
I didn't really start putting myself out there until this
last year or so. I decided that life is way too short, and I
needed to start really "going for it"
and doing the things I wanted to do while I still could do
it and had the opportunity to.
Do other pornstars frown upon your escorting?
I don't think so, I'm pretty sure most of the girl out
there are available as well, so that would be kind of
hypocritical. I don't talk with too many other
stars though, I just kinda keep to myself.
Unlike other pornstars you freely let the world know
you escort. Why? As in, what not escort "UTR" like they
do?
Since I started in porn, and doing adult entertainment,
I've kind of done things more selfishly, as in, I only do
the things that I enjoy, and get off on and escorting has been no different. I LOVE doing this stuff. I sit back and fantasize MYSELF about getting booked, and what might happen, and it really gets me off.
So I don't feel any shame about it, or that I need to hide
anything, I have read a few of my own reviews before
and felt a sense of pride in them that really moved me.
I never thought that when I finally posted an ad, and
started providing that I would be having the type of
experiences I have been having. I feel like I have
really been able to connect, and vibe with my fans, or
admirers and really have an amazing experience
together. Not as an in/out, or a half hour smash
session, but real experiences that you can take something from and have it continually give you a smile for weeks on down the line. I don't even really do 1 hour sessions, in fact don't think I ever have.
Every booking has had more substance to it than just
the basics. When I see the term PSE, I think of it as way more than just a booking, its in the name, its an experience. I bring a ton of outfits, I model them for you, I talk to you about whatever you'd like, my scenes, my life, dirty fantasies, it doesn't matter to me, I love it all and it makes each person a unique experience. Sometimes we even play a game, or do an ice breaker activity to loosen the mood and make sure nothing is rushed and the vibe is correct.
I also extend to all of my clients the option of getting
testing done and engaging in bareback full service
(BBFS). That to me goes along with the PSE, as well as
filming, which I offer as well. Filming isn't for everyone, but I have always extended the option because I wholeheartedly understand why someone would want that and I want them to have the experience that they've dreamed of.
What are the biggest benefits of being a provider?
To each their own, I'm sure most girls are going to say
the money, but for me the money is just a means to an
end. When I'm old and dying, I'm going to look back at
all of the moments that life has given me and I want to be able to smile back on them and know I made some kind of difference to someone's life at some point and hope that it was positive.
A lot of providers work under an agency, but you don't.
Why?
I don't want to be attached to anyone else, or have
anyone else involved in my decisions in any way, nor
the consequences thereof.
How invested do you want your clientele to be into
you?
This is primarily after you've seen them.Well I aim to rock their world to the core, whatever that may be when I figure it out, so I would hope that they would have at the very least a good memory of me and the date, and consider me again in the future.
How do you make your clientele as comfortable as
possible in your sessions?
I do my best to feel out who they are, and what there
after the date, and go with that. Guys want all
different things, and if you don't stop and find out what
it is, you have a lesser chance at having a great date. So I listen to them, and feel them out and do my best to adapt to that.What's something you despise in a client to do in a
session with Just bad hygiene really, which hasn't really happened with clients as of yet. Its really all I need, good hygiene, and an honest attitude and we can make some magic.
Tell me the worst experience you've had with a client?
Have not yet had a bad one, but the worst part of the
whole industry? Definitely the flake factor for guys.
Guys will cancel on you about 3/4 of the time which is a
real disappointment for me personally. Like I said, I get off on this as much as anyone, and when we build something up, and then the guy doesn't follow through, is a real bummer. If guys even followed through half of the time, I'm sure deposits and such wouldn't be so necessary, but the guys that jerk off to the emails and never follow through makes finding the people who are serious about it even harder.
How much do you love the subreddit group? Be honest.
I love reading it, but its gotten a little narrow in scope. I
think it should expand beyond the normal topics of "Girl
X??" And have more substantive conversations
about things. I would love for guys to share what they think would make a better date.
What would make you more comfortable?
Even things like preferring day or night or a bed or a couch would help. We can always make things better.
The sub has its flaws. What do you want to see us do
better?
Just promote more conversation, and let it all flow. I don't think any topics should be off limits, or deleted. It
can only help make it a more comprehensive place for
information.
What do you say to your bad reviews?
I say that I wish the guy would have told me beforehand what he was looking for. As much as I'm a great cock
reader, I'm not a mind reader and if I don't know, then I
i can't do my best for you. OH! And I fucking SWEAR my uber was late, and there was traffic. I'm late to EVERYTHING. Don't book me if you're on a schedule, cuz I'm not a clock watcher, and hope you aren't either.
Is there an expiration date on you escorting? Like,
should we be marking our calendars?
There is an expiration date on everything. I don't know
what tomorrow will bring, and my ability to do this could
end at any time, that being said, I have no expiration
day in mind at this time.
