Who hasn’t come across a girl who offers BBFS?
And no, I’m not talking about PS providers who insist on mutual testing before anything happens.
I’m referring to the regular, everyday providers who casually offer BBFS without ever showing a recent test. Many of them will ask for an extra $80–150 for the “no condom” option — a tempting offer for some including me, especially in the heat of the moment. I’ve gone for that a few times.
Whenever I do, I always make sure I’ve been tested beforehand, just to know my status and feel somewhat reassured about the encounter.
I never go and get tested immediately after a BBFS session. There’s really no point in rushing it.
From my experience (and after doing some research), it’s smarter to wait around 3–4 weeks after unprotected sex before getting tested.
That’s typically when most STIs/STDs will show up on a test, giving a more accurate result.
How long do you normally wait to get tested - both before and after (If it´s with a regular)?
And no, I’m not talking about PS providers who insist on mutual testing before anything happens.
I’m referring to the regular, everyday providers who casually offer BBFS without ever showing a recent test. Many of them will ask for an extra $80–150 for the “no condom” option — a tempting offer for some including me, especially in the heat of the moment. I’ve gone for that a few times.
Whenever I do, I always make sure I’ve been tested beforehand, just to know my status and feel somewhat reassured about the encounter.
I never go and get tested immediately after a BBFS session. There’s really no point in rushing it.
From my experience (and after doing some research), it’s smarter to wait around 3–4 weeks after unprotected sex before getting tested.
That’s typically when most STIs/STDs will show up on a test, giving a more accurate result.
How long do you normally wait to get tested - both before and after (If it´s with a regular)?
