This is what I strive for when taking a provider on a date. Call it what you will, but it’s something I’d love to do with certain providers, even though I know it’ll probably never happen. That’s why it’s hard for me to plan an elaborate date, and why I usually prefer two-hour meets. Doing something this extravagant looks fun, but I know it’s not realistic for me. I’ve said before that I don’t want to measure myself against another client or man something no man should do but it’s tough when you see this kind of thing every day. I’m not afraid to admit that.
For example, two Canadian providers Maeve Rose and Mia Kane were whisked away on one hell of a date. A helicopter adventure. Not many providers get to experience something like that, though more than you’d think actually have. Both women were ecstatic, and the whole thing made for a great adventure and a picture-perfect way to show they’re living their best lives.
Now, doing something to that extent isn’t something I know I’ll ever be able to pull off. To be honest, I’d probably be uncomfortable with it myself I’m not really a “fancy” person, if you want to call it that. I don’t focus on myself when it comes to experiences like this. What matters most is making sure your provider is enjoying herself as much as you are. And if that means stepping out of your comfort zone, I don’t see a downside to it.
As I write this, I’m trying to arrange a date with a provider. It won’t be anywhere near as extravagant as a helicopter ride, but I believe it’ll be just as nice and something both of us will enjoy.
Does seeing stuff like this make me a little self-conscious? Yeah, it does. But I think that’s just the human side of me. Some people see this and get jealous of what another client has or can do. But really, the better reaction is to congratulate him for being able to make it happen. As insecure as I can admit I feel when I see a photo like that, I can never say I’m jealous of anyone living their best life.
I also know most providers are happy with whatever a client can reasonably offer during a meeting. They understand not every client is part of the 1% who can see them regularly at the drop of a hat. And honestly, that kind of thing motivates me to excel more in my civilian career, just so I can someday do something that special for one particular provider or for the many I might see. At the end of the day, it’s all about perspective and how you want to be remembered in that provider’s eyes.
For example, two Canadian providers Maeve Rose and Mia Kane were whisked away on one hell of a date. A helicopter adventure. Not many providers get to experience something like that, though more than you’d think actually have. Both women were ecstatic, and the whole thing made for a great adventure and a picture-perfect way to show they’re living their best lives.Now, doing something to that extent isn’t something I know I’ll ever be able to pull off. To be honest, I’d probably be uncomfortable with it myself I’m not really a “fancy” person, if you want to call it that. I don’t focus on myself when it comes to experiences like this. What matters most is making sure your provider is enjoying herself as much as you are. And if that means stepping out of your comfort zone, I don’t see a downside to it.
As I write this, I’m trying to arrange a date with a provider. It won’t be anywhere near as extravagant as a helicopter ride, but I believe it’ll be just as nice and something both of us will enjoy.
Does seeing stuff like this make me a little self-conscious? Yeah, it does. But I think that’s just the human side of me. Some people see this and get jealous of what another client has or can do. But really, the better reaction is to congratulate him for being able to make it happen. As insecure as I can admit I feel when I see a photo like that, I can never say I’m jealous of anyone living their best life.
I also know most providers are happy with whatever a client can reasonably offer during a meeting. They understand not every client is part of the 1% who can see them regularly at the drop of a hat. And honestly, that kind of thing motivates me to excel more in my civilian career, just so I can someday do something that special for one particular provider or for the many I might see. At the end of the day, it’s all about perspective and how you want to be remembered in that provider’s eyes.
