Has This Hobby Changed You? (Sex Wise)

[Sexaddict]

Starting in this hobby has been one of the best things I’ve ever done. Not only have I met a ton of wonderful ladies, but I’ve also changed in the...

Starting in this hobby has been one of the best things I’ve ever done. Not only have I met a ton of wonderful ladies, but I’ve also changed in the bedroom—so to speak.

Just before I got started in this hobby, and for a while after, I wasn’t into licking pussy at all. I’d get nauseous after just five seconds of going down on a girl.
That all changed four years ago, and since then, I can't go through a single session without going down on the girl—for minutes on end.

Another thing this hobby has taught me is not to be afraid to take charge. Girls love a guy who takes control and know what he wants.

The third thing I’ve evolved to like—or dislike, if you can say so—is that I’ve gone from enjoying normal blowjobs (ever so amazing at first) to now finding basic blowjobs some of the most boring things on earth. That’s led me to only book girls who allow facefucking/gagging in recent years.

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[connman]

I don't think it has changed me sexually but it has changed the way I look at "civilian" woman, and I admit that may not be a great thing.

Seeing a provider is like picking the best out of a line-up. Woman who most likely wouldn't look at me twice if I saw them in a bar have become attainable. Now I meet a woman in a bar and I find myself comparing her to standards that aren't fair to her. On the plus side tho, is when I see the woman that wouldn't give me the time of day in a bar, I just laugh knowing that I can get better thru the hobby.

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[Solitaire]

So I’m a bit weird with it. I just didn’t date because of a peculiar belief related to my military service. Not gonna get into that.

So basically apart from the occasional civilian hook up, this has been it.

It’s certainly made me very competent at fucking. I’ve lived out quite a few fantasies. And I’ve gone place with my dick I wouldn’t go with a gun, an RPG-7 on my back, and a predator drone overhead providing overwatch. Swear to God on that one.

It’s been a trip. Overall, don’t regret it. Learned a lot more about people skipping to the end than starting at the beginning.

If sex isn’t a big deal to me, then I’m not fiending for it. Which frees me to get to know someone without reservation or expectation. Apparently that’s part of “the game” for civilian dating and seduction? Idk, between datingbyblaine and Victoria Zdrok (Tryst Agency)’s book on hooking up with hot girls, it seems I picked up a few things cause of this here hobby.

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

Hell yea its changed me... first time I went daty was with a provider before this the 1 2 girls i slept with "didnt enjoy it"(one was a long term relationship for almost a decade) after eating a girl out it's the best meal on earth and now won't see a provider who doesn't let u eat her out.. i also experienced my first raw dog+creampie and ita definitely so hard to use a condom now...I've also been with providers in costumes i never could get my actual ex girlfriend to wear

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[sezz66]

Idk, between datingbyblaine and Victoria Zdrok (Tryst Agency)’s book on hooking up with hot girls, it seems I picked up a few things cause of this here hobby.

I remember that book! I actually read it and called her. It was an interesting time.

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[Solitaire]

I remember that book! I actually read it and called her. It was an interesting time.

I’m sure it was haha

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[Throwawaydecent1]

I've become way better at sex and more confident in bed. I know how to make girls cum whether its by me licking their pussy or just fucking them. I'm proud to have made a few girls cum and even more proud that i was able to cum at the same time with them (one of which was a pornstar). I've gotten a few compliments in my thickness which again boosted my confidence.

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[Firedemon4lyf]

Yeah I care less and less about ppl and life

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[Ch3vyh0tr0d]

I certainly care a shit ton less when im out and about and have chemistry with a girl we exchange numbers and she ghosts me or whatever... im like fuck it ill just go hit up my atf and well fuck each others brains out and ill blow my load inside her

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[cranium_basher]

Having sex with many many women and it made me realize that every women are different. They like things differently how they are treated. Some like aggressive pussy licking or penetration, some prefer it slow and gentle. Some can easily get wet and cum, some require long time of pussy play for it.

Sexual chemistry is also something else. Sometimes it's just not a matching chemistry, and sometimes it's a great chemistry between you and the woman.

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[lvg99]

Fuck yes it has. Before I started doing this in 2023 (and losing my virginity) I couldn't talk to girls at all. I still don't cold approach or have any luck with normal dating but I'm way better than I was before. Also helped me learn what I am into (filming) and what I'm not into (feet/large gangbangs haha).

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[Hentai_Hibiki]

Made me ultra confident with no hangups in bed about my experience and physical attributes.

Gave me practice and feedback to become a better cunning linguist.

I ignore most women in public because I know I have access to good sex when my bank account has enough funding. Even attractive women I don’t give a second thought to.

On the negative side it has made me intolerant of the idea of a sexless marriage/relationship and I will have no qualm divorcing if my needs aren’t met. So I’m going to be extremely picky if I ever decide to get married.

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