I’m probably in the minority here, but I’ve seen enough ECs and UTR providers to know that even if bbfs isn’t the norm, it’s definitely available. I always directly ask if bbfs is available before scheduling my first meeting. More than half of them have agreed at an extra fee (usually at double their donation).
About 30% said bbfs could be an option in the future with repeated meetings, and the rest said no. I was never blacklisted, ghosted, or blocked. Admittedly, I’ve developed a little network where the women I’ve seen will vouch for me or make introductions to their friends, so I feel comfortable being direct when asking.
When you’re willing to pay at a higher rate, I personally believe that bbfs should be an option and it isn’t offensive to ask at all. I live in LA so I have more choices available to me than I even want to actually book.
For those of you hesitating on asking but really want the bbfs option, just ask. The worst thing that can happen is you get a “NO” and you move on. There’s so many options available as long as you’re willing to make the effort to ask.
