I agree. You can’t be desperate. You must be a man with means, a man with a plethora of options. That’s who they want. Men who don’t have an OF subscription to them, but just want access to them for physical pleasure.
It’s all a game. Women want men who are exclusive, men want women that are beautiful. And it’s all in the approach. Money alone isn’t enough. The framing and self-presentation is key. Confidence is calm and collected, cool and self assured. Every word must be carefully considered and crafted tactfully. And IRL, you must maintain composure at all times. Think of it as an interview or a movie role if needed. Never lose the upper hand.