You figure out this hobby session by session, month by month, and year by year. I’ve tried it all over my 11 years in the hobby. I started out being genuinely nervous during my first outings, but slowly built enough confidence that these days, I’m not bothered at all by whoever opens the door...

Who hasn’t been in that situation where it’s been a little too long since you’ve seen a provider? Sure, solo sessions take the edge off, but nothing compares to the real thing. The problem is obvious: after a long break, most of us only last a minute, sometimes even less, during that first...

I just want to hear what everyone’s routine is the day before a booking. I try to refrain from watching porn the day or even night before - But then all the questions start bubbling up at night: “Should I release? Would I be able to go again in less than 15 hours?” I’ve experienced both...

We’ve all been there—and I mean all of us. Everything’s going great, you take your pants off, and it’s off to the races. She starts going down on you, and it feels A M A Z I N G... until you realize you’re already at a 9/10 on the orgasm scale. I have a very good personal example: I love...

It’s simple: keep the engine running or don’t be surprised when it sputters. I’m not talking about going to the gym or doing cardio — those help, but they’re not the point. The point is this: if you want reliable real-life performance, you need regular real-life maintenance. For me that means...

This post is meant to be open-ended—we can all learn from each other, so any tips you have are greatly appreciated. Of course, ED drugs are an effective option—there are plenty of posts discussing the various medications available. However, I’ve read reviews and comments from gentlemen saying...

We already have a post about things to avoid right before a session, as well as one on vitamins and supplements that actually work. This post, however, is about how to keep the blood flowing to where it really matters — for the long run. 🚫 What to Avoid 1) Too much smoking I’ll be honest — I...

We already have a post about how to enhance your erections naturally, but this one is different. This post is focused on specific techniques, routines, and habits that naturally give you rock-solid erections every single time — no guesswork, no surprises. Let’s dive into the three pillars...

Pre-session warm-up is seriously underrated. Everything you do before the session can either set the tone for something amazing — or send it straight into the dirt. It doesn’t matter if you’re a brand new hobbyist or a seasoned veteran. Anyone can mess up a session just by getting the start...

One thing we all want is to last long—have that stamina that makes you feel like a powerhouse in the bedroom. Even after 10 years in this hobby, I still find it challenging to maintain endurance at times. It depends on multiple factors, but over the years, I’ve learned a few key things that have...

We’ve already discussed all the different medications that can—and most likely will—help when you're put on the spot. There’s nothing worse than showing up to a booking, having the hottest girl in front of you, and yet your dick refuses to cooperate. The cause could be many things: nerves...

It happens from time to time that I forgot to take the blue pill before I go to see an escort. When I realize it, usually when I´m about to send the almost obligatory "I´m here" text, my stomach turns itself inside out because without it, I know FOR SURE that I´m going to bust in 2 minutes...

The average time a guy cums in is within 4-7 minutes but what if you want to extend that? Here is a few tips 1. Jerk off often - and practise edging This has helped alot of men struggling with premature ejaculation. When you masturbate you want to bring yourself to just before the point of no...