I wrote another post a week ago about how everyone should just “do it” - book the girl you’ve always dreamed of, book an extraordinary hotel or Airbnb stay with your ATF, and so on. And it’s all true. Money will come back. There’s plenty of it, it’s just about going out and getting it. Pick up...

When my SB and I stopped talking, it wasn’t like I instantly moved on. For weeks I kept catching myself thinking: “Hmm… I wonder what she’s doing right now.” The slow fade is what gets you. Daily messages turn into weekly ones. Weekly messages turn into something every couple of weeks. That’s...

Finding the ATF or even the SB is truly amazing. It really is. You feel like you're “in love,” even though deep down you know it’s roleplay — yet you still get that WOW feeling in your stomach. You get multiple dopamine hits a day when she writes to you on WhatsApp. It feels special. However...

I’ve written plenty of posts both advocating for and mostly warning against - getting a SB. This one is different. This post is strictly about why getting a sugarbabe can actually be good for you. Not emotionally. Not romantically. Not sexually. Economically. Let’s talk about the part...

“Should I, or should I not, get into a sugarbabe relationship?” As a guy who’s had a sugarbabe for three years and then some, I honestly wish I’d read a post like this before getting into it. But here I am, writing it now - because I’m probably in the perfect position to do so. It would be...

The old saying “money talks — bullshit takes the bus” is still very, very true. Not just in the outside world, but especially in this hobby. I saw it firsthand with my former SB. She was loving, attentive, and played the “perfect girlfriend” role flawlessly—as long as the money and gifts were...

I've had to grind to get just here and I want to go a long way up in terms of career success. But I haven't had any sexual success (outside of hobby), I missed out on sleeping around in college and in 20s, so I don't intend to lock myself down in a monogamous relationship/marriage which starts...

When you’ve been in this hobby long enough, you learn pretty quickly that talking about it outside of EA or your inner circle can be a mistake, well not a mistake per se but well get to that. Things get messy fast. You’ll hear opinions, mostly from people with zero firsthand experience - often...

This is a very personal post - although a funny one when I look back on it now. I’m no longer in contact with the woman, but the memories from those first three years still make me smile. I’m also writing this so future-me can look back on it here on EA in four or five years and (hopefully) feel...

Having an SB is indeed something you need to think about - because sooner or later (in 98% of cases), the connection ends. Since we’re on EA, I want to talk specifically about having a provider as an SB. Not because the difference is massive, but because the dynamics are slightly different: a...

There’s some confusion about where the boundary sits between an ATF and a SB and how easily those lines can blur without us, clients even noticing. Everyone knows what an ATF is: someone you enjoy, trust, and return to over and over, whenever they're in town. It’s familiar, consistent, and...

By old flame, I mean an ATF or SB you’ve already said goodbye to. Maybe not just once, but twice. It’s almost never a good idea to try reconnecting — especially if a lot of time has passed or if the last interaction didn’t end on a strong note. In my experience, it rarely ends well. I’ve tried...

Granted, I’ve just broken things off with my now-former SB, but I’ll try to keep this as unbiased as possible. (Key word: try.) Having a sugarbabe—or even an ATF you’ve grown close to—is one of those things that sounds perfect "on paper". It’s thrilling, it’s hot, it scratches both the...

Sugarbabe or even an ATF you’ve known for years — respect is non-negotiable. The second you feel disrespected, that’s your signal. Don’t argue, don’t beg, don’t chase. End it. Step back and let her make the next move, if she even bothers. I’m speaking from experience here. Just tonight, I said...

Having a sugarbabe doesn’t necessarily have to drain your wallet — it can be done without going overboard or "breaking the bank". I’ve got a solid example that backs this up. First things first: in my view, having an SB doesn’t mean constantly throwing money at a girl. You can also have an...

I’ve had—or currently have—all three types: Regulars, ATFs, and SBs. Technically, you don’t “have” a regular, but when you meet a girl—whether she’s a regular or high-end—relationships can grow, which is why I chose that term. Let’s start with Regulars. If you want things to progress...

The thought came to me last night, and I figured—why not flip the script and write a post about it? It might be interesting and maybe even insightful for any gentleman who is either already in one, or considering entering, such an arrangement. So, the bottom line: do I, or have I ever...

Short answer: it can work—and I’ve done it—but if I were starting today, I’d pick differently. I’ve had fantastic arrangements with providers who were still active. No shade on anyone’s model—escorts and sugarbabes can be amazing, generous, and professional. But if I was entering that world...

Bill Belichick, has taken on a new challenge as head coach of the University of North Carolina since December 2024. Yet, it’s his personal life that’s stealing the headlines—his relationship with 24-year-old Jordon Hudson. Their 49-year age gap, combined with Hudson’s apparent influence over...

I’ve bought many gifts throughout the years for escorts I got to know personally, but I’ve never received a gift in return. I’m wondering if that’s just… common. To give a good example, I’ve known one girl for almost six years. Before we took a “break” two years ago, I used to give a...