The old saying “money talks — bullshit takes the bus” is still very, very true. Not just in the outside world, but especially in this hobby. I saw it firsthand with my former SB. She was loving, attentive, and played the “perfect girlfriend” role flawlessly—as long as the money and gifts were...

was thinking about this all morning, so I had to put it into writing. There are actually a few very real ways to get a provider on your team or onboard, if you will - and I say that from personal experience. I remember how I’ve done it myself over the years. Everything from offering her to go...

I vaguely remember that this topic has come up before, although quite a while back — and since then, more gentlemen have joined us, which is why I’m “reviving” it now. I’ve both given birthday and Christmas presents to providers I’ve gotten close with (four women - one of them eventually became...

I thought I’d share my two cents on perfect gift ideas - what brands to choose and what specific product lines that work. Whether it’s perfume, premium chocolate, or lingerie, these are all guaranteed to make sure the provider loves the gift. Every one of these is something i’ve personally...

I’ve always found the whole question of when to bring gifts a bit confusing. If it’s a provider you genuinely like, you want to bring a gift to stand out - but not something over the top. At the same time, you also don’t want to show up empty-handed. As I’ve mentioned in another post, it’s...

Giving a gift is becoming more normal as a client. There’s nothing wrong with showing up empty-handed, especially when you have no idea what to get your provider, but being in this for as long as I have, I feel a gift is sometimes in order. I usually go with a Visa card or something from the...

I just wrote about what gifts are “generally” expected and at what stage — from the first meet to ATF to something deeper. But screw the polite guide for a second. I want to hear about the gifts that actually changed the game — the ones that made her light up, flood you with attention, or blur...

I’ve bought many gifts throughout the years for escorts I got to know personally, but I’ve never received a gift in return. I’m wondering if that’s just… common. To give a good example, I’ve known one girl for almost six years. Before we took a “break” two years ago, I used to give a...

One of my favorite couples I've been seeing for awhile spoke to me a couple months back about wanting to do an interview for my blog (Where I do a great deal of client help/'101' style posts, see FMTY 101/Duos 101/Gifts 101/more) about their journey and experience with escorts as I'd gotten a...

Today I learned the deeper reasons behind providers sharing posts about gifts, luxury items, and vacations. It’s something we frequently see on social media—providers showcasing their lifestyle with extravagant gifts or destination sessions. While it can seem like flaunting at first glance, I...

We’ve all heard and seen "simp" being thrown around the internet like it was a Goddamn 2012 Modern Warfare lobby, but what is the actual definition of the word? Probably not the best source, but I looked it up on Urban Dictionary, and the following came up: So, the simple definition of "simp"...

I’ve BEEN there too, 2-3 years ago until i realized that WHAT THE FUCK WAS I DOING?? It makes no sense to buy escorts, “Gifts”. The price is already enough. Have you ever bought something for an escort, if yes, why?