I'm going to be brutally honest since Baby Gemini is being honest with us. This post she made is right on the money, but I think there are gray areas of it that need some interpretation. There are factors that are apparent between both sides of the hobby that, as clients, we know and may come...

We can be sued. As clients, we can be sued for one reason or another take your fucking pick but it is very possible for this to happen. I've always known this is a thing and it could literally happen to any one of us at any given time, but I really didn't know the extent of what it could be for...

While doing my usual morning research, I came upon an article. The article led me to TrystLink, where I read it and was confused on the context of it all. The article was called “What Not to Ask Your Provider and What You Should Ask Instead.” It focused on questions that clients supposedly ask...

The two-pop talk is something that will never get old in the hobby. Everyone has their own opinion on it and will live and die by that opinion no matter what a lot of us have to say. It’s a subject that has split both sides of the hobby down the middle, making providers question why their...

I shouldn't have to say but I am. Please keep your opinion on the situation happening on X to yourself. I’m sure by now everyone knows what’s happening on the PS side of X. It has literally exploded over the past two days, and the aftereffects are still being felt wherever some of us look. It...

I don’t know if many of you read the Slixa Blog. I may have mentioned it once or twice, but it’s a great source of information when trying to navigate the hobby. The majority of it is geared toward providers, which is nice. I just think it’s good to know what to expect from the other side of the...

With the number of key card hotels still being used by providers, it seems another thread needs to be made. With how many providers I’ve seen while Exxxotica is in town, they still seem to use hotels where a key card is required for every step you take to a certain extent, anyway. It’s not their...

As easy as it has been to talk provider-related topics on X, it's easier to see that they've been cracking down hard on it. The last couple of years have made it difficult for a client to do much of anything on X, so you can imagine how the providers feel. Not too long ago, X did a giant purge...

I’ve said to follow the Sex Worker Reddit group a couple of times in the community. They don’t like us much in there, but they do offer the best information on what not to do as a client. I follow them extensively even though a lot of what they write about is how to get over on us and the bad...

I want to say I’ve seen them before, but I can’t really remember. They’ve been around for a long time almost three decades way before I started in this hobby. With that kind of history, you’d think they’d have more recognition. Yet barely anyone talks about their member site here or anywhere...

I’m really trying to understand what to make of this post. Being open-minded is something I always keep at the forefront because I don’t like to judge — I’d rather see things from another person’s perspective. But I find it difficult to do that when the perspective is of a man scouting out a...

The moment I saw this hypothetical, I was stunned. Not so much by the question, but by the fact that I was struggling to come up with an answer in the moment. I was completely struck by my own thoughts, searching for a response. When I couldn’t think of one, I realized I might not be as quick on...

I believe I may have stumbled upon a bit of a provider secret. I only say that because as soon as I saw it on social media, it was deleted—almost like the provider posted it by mistake. And honestly, I can see why. It raises some interesting questions about the kind of clients we are—and whether...

Dignity is the most important possession anyone can have. It's often the only thing many of us carry as we move through the world, and I believe it separates those with common sense from the basic assholes who make fools of themselves for no reason other than to be one. Dignity shows that you...

Early last year, I mentioned that Monkeypox could be a potential concern in our hobby. Now, the disease is spreading across multiple continents and making its way around the world. This isn’t an “I told you so” post; it’s more of a “watch out before you catch it” update. Recently, Monkeypox has...

The only reason I’m bringing this up is out of pure curiosity. This popped up on my FYP on X, and all I could do was look at it in amazement—amazed that someone could actually do something like this and be okay with it. Hear me out on this. I don’t know what it’s like to have hundreds of...

From my point of view, syphilis comes up a little to often in the community. At the same time talking about this stuff even though uncomfortable for many could end up saving a lot of peoples health. We navigate in a hobby that can be dangerous from all fronts whether it be from LE or scammers...

A friend sent this to me, and I couldn’t help but laugh—though I was a bit saddened, but probably not for the reason you’d think. We’ve all acknowledged that what providers do is, at its core, a business transaction. Emphasizing the “business” in that statement. Along with business comes several...

While browsing social media yesterday, I came across a particular provider's post on X that caught my attention. The post was straightforward, which I'll get into in a moment, but what really struck me was the picture the provider shared. It made me question whether this could be considered...

I can't have been the only one who's shown up to a session early to check for LE. It was part of my routine as a hobbyist. It went along with making sure I didn't smell like ass and checking the location of the session. Checking for LE was a chore and I made sure I diligently made time for it no...