Finding the ATF or even the SB is truly amazing. It really is. You feel like you're “in love,” even though deep down you know it’s roleplay — yet you still get that WOW feeling in your stomach. You get multiple dopamine hits a day when she writes to you on WhatsApp. It feels special. However...

The old saying “money talks — bullshit takes the bus” is still very, very true. Not just in the outside world, but especially in this hobby. I saw it firsthand with my former SB. She was loving, attentive, and played the “perfect girlfriend” role flawlessly—as long as the money and gifts were...

So I only really started having the funds to enjoy the hobby around 2021 and on so I missed out on a lot of providers that stopped providing around the time that Covid started and onlyfans took off. One of my biggest regrets is missing out on Gina Valentina. For anyone that did have the luxury...

was thinking about this all morning, so I had to put it into writing. There are actually a few very real ways to get a provider on your team or onboard, if you will - and I say that from personal experience. I remember how I’ve done it myself over the years. Everything from offering her to go...

Building a relationship with a provider isn’t something everyone achieves - and that’s exactly why it’s special. It’s not about luck, and it’s not about trying to buy feelings. It’s about chemistry, consistency, and showing that you’re not just another booking. Providers see many men, but not...

There’s some confusion about where the boundary sits between an ATF and a SB and how easily those lines can blur without us, clients even noticing. Everyone knows what an ATF is: someone you enjoy, trust, and return to over and over, whenever they're in town. It’s familiar, consistent, and...

By old flame, I mean an ATF or SB you’ve already said goodbye to. Maybe not just once, but twice. It’s almost never a good idea to try reconnecting — especially if a lot of time has passed or if the last interaction didn’t end on a strong note. In my experience, it rarely ends well. I’ve tried...

I vaguely remember that this topic has come up before, although quite a while back — and since then, more gentlemen have joined us, which is why I’m “reviving” it now. I’ve both given birthday and Christmas presents to providers I’ve gotten close with (four women - one of them eventually became...

There really is fierce "competition" when it comes to finding and keeping ATFs. Sure, there are plenty of gentlemen who visit a provider two or three times and move on a new woman, but the real competition comes from the guys who keep returning, again and again - trying to “win her over” and...

There’s just something special about having an ATF - that one provider you keep going back to, again and again. The connection deepens each time. She gets to know you and vice versa. After a while, it’s not just about the fun behind closed doors - in many cases. Before you know it, you might...

I’ve made posts before with tips for first-time hobbyists, and even a guide on taking ED drugs for the first time. Now, the time has come for the almighty ATF — also because I’m currently in search of a new one myself. What to look for, what to avoid, and what to actually embrace. After more...

Granted, I’ve just broken things off with my now-former SB, but I’ll try to keep this as unbiased as possible. (Key word: try.) Having a sugarbabe—or even an ATF you’ve grown close to—is one of those things that sounds perfect "on paper". It’s thrilling, it’s hot, it scratches both the...

Sugarbabe or even an ATF you’ve known for years — respect is non-negotiable. The second you feel disrespected, that’s your signal. Don’t argue, don’t beg, don’t chase. End it. Step back and let her make the next move, if she even bothers. I’m speaking from experience here. Just tonight, I said...

LeøThis post is going to have a little bit of everything, so strap in. First of all, I want to start with how it feels to be attracted to a provider, where it usually leads, and how much of a bummer it often turns out to be (in the long run). Who hasn’t tried being really attracted to a...

I’ve had—or currently have—all three types: Regulars, ATFs, and SBs. Technically, you don’t “have” a regular, but when you meet a girl—whether she’s a regular or high-end—relationships can grow, which is why I chose that term. Let’s start with Regulars. If you want things to progress...