How did you get over your anxiety about the whole thing. It must have felt weird at first paying for intimate contact?
Pornstars are good actresses and you can element that feeling in person by not dealing with the donation portion directly (this in not me saying to send deposits or pay the girl prior to meeting, I only send deposits through certain agencies, I will
Never send one directly, I will give a credit card to book a flight that I can get refunded if she doesn’t get on, and I will provide as many 5star references as she wants, but I will never send a deposit other than through specific agencies. Such as tryst.
There are other ways Such as having it in the bathroom so you don’t have hand it to her sending it fully through the agency, Mr tryst does this for me often and then there is no need to even discuss it with the girl and she knows it’s good from the start and is immediately comfortable. But I can not say he is willing to offer that to everyone.
There are other ways, but end of the day you have to get her the money somehow, and it’s just part of the experience like someone said.
Heck I have a regular I see often and I simply send her 1k every month and then when we see eachother we figure out the difference based on how long we spend together and how much I’d sent her since our last date . But there is zero clock watching or discussing it. There is one text after she leaves saying we were together from 1pm-6pm 5 total hours. With a confirmation thumbs up from me with a Zelle a couple days later but that situtionship is uncommon and extremely hard to build and takes time more than anything.
To be honest, the anxiety never fully disappears. You just learn how to carry it better with experience, confidence, and understanding yourself.
For me, it’s never felt “weird.” As a single older gentleman and executive at a multi-billion dollar financial institution in Southern California, the service
@trystagency provides fits my lifestyle perfectly. My schedule doesn’t really allow for traditional dating.
What this lifestyle has given me is the opportunity to connect with beautiful women who are confident in who they are and clear about what they want. There’s honesty in that, and I appreciate it.
I’ve even been fortunate enough to date one of the women I met through this world. At the end of the day, I look at it as an alternative form of dating. Two adults connecting, enjoying each other’s company, and seeing where the chemistry leads.
what you’re describing is a sugar baby/daddy relationship with pornstars lol
But seriously that’s Which is kinda exactly what it is. All escorts hookers pornstars sugar babies ect want regulars at the end of the day, the first time you meet is usually to check a name off the list and see if you want to repeat down the line. Just like with a guitar baby where the first time you meet is when you just break th ice a talk about what eachother want out of a potential mutually beneficial relationship.
There are no strings and as long as you respect the business side, pornstars in particular can become good “friends with benefits” “travel buddies” “ sugar babies” “ booty call hook up buddies” ect
And a man should always be providing for the woman he’s in a relationship with. Just in this situation it’s very clear you give her money and she uses that money to pay for her lifestyle. You don’t need to worry about buying her flowers, covering her phone bill, paying her rent, sending her door dash after a long day and can save the gifts and trips and spoiling for the main roster.
But there’s also no hard feelings when you don’t text her, she doesn’t break it off because you fuck other girls maybe you become friend and wish eachother happy birthday maybe you don’t. There’s no drama, you have your life they have theirs, although it’s still never a good idea to brag to one girl about the all
The others you see. All women get jealous, just in this situation she’s not made you fucked another girls she’s mad you gave another girl money that you could have given her.
But Once you know you want to see them more than once or twice you can even discuss the possibility of a sugary baby situation. Or a more long term relationship. Just always respect how you meet them and allow the girl the right to change the dynamic of the relationship do not try to force it yourself becuse that is how you get hurt. It’s a trick game. Becuse at the end of the day this is their job and you are a client who paid them. But if you keep it professional and respectful you might get lucky enough to call a few of them friends if that is something you are looking for, or date them but that’s definitely a situation that rare and outside the norm and should not be the expectation.
Also never think you will Be able to Or to buy any girls affection with your bank account. If you give them an inch they will Take a mile and you will
End up hurt. You need to remember this is their job. Not their personal life. After that you is established, you might get lucky enough to become friends or more. But if you come in like Mr business, swipity, myself at times, and a few others whom I won’t name becuse they are not as public about their financial situation, many girls will see you as a trick and try to get money from you, and if you cannot recognize those signs you can set yourself up for emotional heartache and financial ruin. Only give what you can afford to lose and expect nothing in return becuse a gift with expectation is not a gift and honesty they will appreciate the small $50 candle and bath salt basket just as much as the $4k bag and I’ve done both within the last 3 months and the girl with the Louie is gone and the one who got the bubble bath is going to Maui with me this summer without a set donation or allowance
The anxiousness/nervousness you feel when you contact your favorite PS providers and get your date set is kinda like a drug for me, lol. 
